K's decided to go to Pakistan for a month, as per the deal. Ive dug up a lot of forced marraiges information and addresses/phonenumbers etc. Making sure she covers her back. It could well be she goes and her relatives keep hold of her passport and return ticket until they wear her down long enough for her to agree to marry her cousin. Surely they know that if after a month she is still wants to marry me, the moment she steps on that plane back to Brittania, their 'hounor' is over. Surely they couldnt let that happen and would try every means at their disposal. K seems confident, and funnily enough so am I, or is it just that Ive had enough and a break from this for a month is very much welcomed? If something does happen up there which ends this situation, at least it woudl be decisive and id be free to move on...what am i thinking, is it right...who knows. Anyway Ive told K' to not book any tickets until she drives a hard bargain with dear daddy. Want some rock solid assurances of him that he wont feign anymore heart attacks when she comes back and gives her away to me as he promised his spiritual leader on monday. She might be going this saturday. She's told her manager at work who have kindly given her a holiday for the duration and will get the authorities involved if the isnt back on the return date of her ticket. BRING IT ON!!