What an eventful long weekend. Just a summary - Pir declared on Saturday, that her would come down from Birmigham and take over from K's dad and just perform the marraige - the thinking being as he is the spiritual leader of K's dad, K's dad wouldnt be able to do much. I spoke to Pir myself and asked if it was really going to happen, he sounded really confident and told be to be ready for 3:00 on Monday. Great! I though, this blog will come to an end! Predictably the whole of Sunday was hell at the K houshold. Described as a funeral by K herself, there was endless crying and dad begging her to reconsider before she makes this massive blunder about a zillion times. (and I always thought i was quite a catch!). Anyway after a lot of crying and emotional blackmail - saying that if this happens K would never be allowed to see her family ever again, Pir turns up (late) Monday afternoon to do the deed. Got a phonecall about 9ish saying that the whole thing was off because...listen to this...they feared if they went ahead and did it K's dad might die of a heart attack. I went balistic at this point and almost had one of mt own. Apparantly they reached a compromise. The deal is this. K would have to go to Pakistan for a month. and IF she comes back still wanting to marry me then dad would give in. Sound too good to be true?? It probably damn well is! Stay tuned!