Her Family Hate Me

Almost 3 days are done. 25 to go before K comes back from Pakistan - thus completing her part of the bargain with dear daddy. I miss the incessent texting. Not missing her as much as I thought, but maybe its a delayed response. Marking days off on the calander in the kitchen. Still havent heard from her yet but I will start to worry if there is not contact after a week.

K's decided to go to Pakistan for a month, as per the deal. Ive dug up a lot of forced marraiges information and addresses/phonenumbers etc. Making sure she covers her back. It could well be she goes and her relatives keep hold of her passport and return ticket until they wear her down long enough for her to agree to marry her cousin. Surely they know that if after a month she is still wants to marry me, the moment she steps on that plane back to Brittania, their 'hounor' is over. Surely they couldnt let that happen and would try every means at their disposal. K seems confident, and funnily enough so am I, or is it just that Ive had enough and a break from this for a month is very much welcomed? If something does happen up there which ends this situation, at least it woudl be decisive and id be free to move on...what am i thinking, is it right...who knows. Anyway Ive told K' to not book any tickets until she drives a hard bargain with dear daddy. Want some rock solid assurances of him that he wont feign anymore heart attacks when she comes back and gives her away to me as he promised his spiritual leader on monday. She might be going this saturday. She's told her manager at work who have kindly given her a holiday for the duration and will get the authorities involved if the isnt back on the return date of her ticket. BRING IT ON!!

What an eventful long weekend. Just a summary - Pir declared on Saturday, that her would come down from Birmigham and take over from K's dad and just perform the marraige - the thinking being as he is the spiritual leader of K's dad, K's dad wouldnt be able to do much. I spoke to Pir myself and asked if it was really going to happen, he sounded really confident and told be to be ready for 3:00 on Monday. Great! I though, this blog will come to an end! Predictably the whole of Sunday was hell at the K houshold. Described as a funeral by K herself, there was endless crying and dad begging her to reconsider before she makes this massive blunder about a zillion times. (and I always thought i was quite a catch!). Anyway after a lot of crying and emotional blackmail - saying that if this happens K would never be allowed to see her family ever again, Pir turns up (late) Monday afternoon to do the deed. Got a phonecall about 9ish saying that the whole thing was off because...listen to this...they feared if they went ahead and did it K's dad might die of a heart attack. I went balistic at this point and almost had one of mt own. Apparantly they reached a compromise. The deal is this. K would have to go to Pakistan for a month. and IF she comes back still wanting to marry me then dad would give in. Sound too good to be true?? It probably damn well is! Stay tuned!

Me and K are back on track again just like the good old days. She is sure something positive will come out of tommorrow, with the pir calling round again this time to 'sort it out'. No harm in holding my breath for one more day I suppose. Also not really much action on the matrimonial website I put my profile on. Alas! tis this be a sign?

Not sure where any of this is going. Put my picture and profile up on one of them matrimonial websites just to see how many takers respond. Ive got 4 responses so far and it was only uploaded on Sunday, so im not doing too bad. None of them are my type though. Havent spoken to K, thought perhaps Id better clear my head. Im sort of hoping this is a phase, and after a couple of days I can go back to the hell hole or a wait for K wondering if it will ever happen. Nice