Strange weekend I had. As I suspected - there was no meeting on Sunday with pir and relatives, as that would be too good to be true. Instead the Pir came on Fri. Didnt know what he chatted about but apparantly he's planning to take over from the father and conduct the ceremony himself. K's mum is insisting on this as she know that most of the family are going to be off to Pakistan in a few weeks time, which would leave K alone and free to run off with me.Anyway I dont want to buy into anything at this stage, had enough knock backs and crushed hopes in this ride already. Want to hear it from the horses mounth with times and dates of when and where I should turn up for my big day. Anyway, really strange thing happened, I went off K over the weekend and embarked on efforts to fined another wife! what the fuck is all that about!!??